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apreacherskid:

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Glad to hear your small victory. I know that burden of the worry of coming out and the congregation reaction. My dad’s seminary school pk was caught w a guy & the church kicked his dad out….


It sucks that as pk we have to be concerned that our parent’s community standing is affected by their acceptance of us.

I can’t fathom coming out to my dad bc his community would never get over it even if he cuts ties w me. He is the minister of his childhood church and the congregation is family friends. My grandfather has been a decon there for twenty years. It’s a terrible situation bc it would touch all of my father’s family. immediately.

currentlyinapickle:

Evelyn Nesbit 1884-1967

Chorus girl, model, and “the lethal beauty” who is rumored to have been the muse for the sculpture of “Diana,” commissioned by architect Standford White, that once sat atop Madison Square Garden.

(via madhistory)

 Meet City Councilmember LaWana Mayfield 
https://twitter.com/lawanamayfieldhttp://www.votelawanamayfield.com/DONATE TO HER CAMPAIGN HERE
LaWana Mayfield, a Democrat, represents District 3 on Charlotte City Council. She was elected in 2011 and is serving her first term on Council.  Mayfield formerly chaired the youth and gang violence subcommittee of the Charlotte-Mecklenburg Community Relations Committee, is a steering committee volunteer with the Mecklenburg Political Action Committee, and is a community advocate with the Charlotte Community Justice Coalition. She is grants committee chair and a former board member of the Charlotte Lesbian and Gay Fund and serves as board co-chair of the Ujamaa Institute, which focuses on philanthropy in the African-American community.
 
Previous public service included serving on the board of governors and as national female diversity co-chair for the Human Rights Campaign and as a client casework supervisor of disaster services with the Carolina’s Chapter of the American Red Cross.   Mayfield received the Community Award from the North Carolina Black Pride Movement, the Diversity Outreach and Volunteer of the Year awards from the Human Rights Campaign, the Woman of Achievement Award from the YWCA, and the Harvey B. Gantt Award from the Young Democrats.
 
source: http://charmeck.org/city/charlotte/citycouncil/meetthecouncil/pages/district%203%20lawana%20mayfield.aspx

 Meet City Councilmember LaWana Mayfield 

https://twitter.com/lawanamayfield

http://www.votelawanamayfield.com/

DONATE TO HER CAMPAIGN HERE

LaWana Mayfield, a Democrat, represents District 3 on Charlotte City Council. She was elected in 2011 and is serving her first term on Council. 
 
Mayfield formerly chaired the youth and gang violence subcommittee of the Charlotte-Mecklenburg Community Relations Committee, is a steering committee volunteer with the Mecklenburg Political Action Committee, and is a community advocate with the Charlotte Community Justice Coalition. She is grants committee chair and a former board member of the Charlotte Lesbian and Gay Fund and serves as board co-chair of the Ujamaa Institute, which focuses on philanthropy in the African-American community.

 


Previous public service included serving on the board of governors and as national female diversity co-chair for the Human Rights Campaign and as a client casework supervisor of disaster services with the Carolina’s Chapter of the American Red Cross. 
  
Mayfield received the Community Award from the North Carolina Black Pride Movement, the Diversity Outreach and Volunteer of the Year awards from the Human Rights Campaign, the Woman of Achievement Award from the YWCA, and the Harvey B. Gantt Award from the Young Democrats.

 

source: http://charmeck.org/city/charlotte/citycouncil/meetthecouncil/pages/district%203%20lawana%20mayfield.aspx

Meet Councilmember LaWana Mayfield

Lawana Mayfield, district 3 representative

https://twitter.com/lawanamayfield

http://www.votelawanamayfield.com/

DONATE TO HER CAMPAIGN HERE

LaWana Mayfield, a Democrat, represents District 3 on Charlotte City Council. She was elected in 2011 and is serving her first term on Council. 
 
Mayfield formerly chaired the youth and gang violence subcommittee of the Charlotte-Mecklenburg Community Relations Committee, is a steering committee volunteer with the Mecklenburg Political Action Committee, and is a community advocate with the Charlotte Community Justice Coalition. She is grants committee chair and a former board member of the Charlotte Lesbian and Gay Fund and serves as board co-chair of the Ujamaa Institute, which focuses on philanthropy in the African-American community. Previous public service included serving on the board of governors and as national female diversity co-chair for the Human Rights Campaign and as a client casework supervisor of disaster services with the Carolina’s Chapter of the American Red Cross. 
  
Mayfield received the Community Award from the North Carolina Black Pride Movement, the Diversity Outreach and Volunteer of the Year awards from the Human Rights Campaign, the Woman of Achievement Award from the YWCA, and the Harvey B. Gantt Award from the Young Democrats.

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thefemme-menace:

kenyabenyagurl:

thinksquad:

Announcement coming Monday

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no.

when i googled this my computer crashed. no lie

Columbia University still has 'whites only' scholarship — RT USA

rtamerica:

Columbia University still offers a “whites only” tuition fellowship, which is restricted to “a person of the Caucasian race” and may be in violation of the US Constitution, a Manhattan Supreme Court wrote in papers filed Monday.

(via stfuconservatives)

fuckyeahfeminists:

Costco CEO Craig Jelinek supports raising the minimum wage.

Costco announced record profits today, averaging $10,000 in profit per employee compared to $7,400 at Walmart. The secret to Costco’s success is paying employees well, providing benefits, and giving them an opportunity to unionize.

So large corporations’ excuses that treating & paying workers well would damage profits are all a crock of shit.

fuckyeahfeminists:

Costco CEO Craig Jelinek supports raising the minimum wage.

Costco announced record profits today, averaging $10,000 in profit per employee compared to $7,400 at Walmart. 
The secret to Costco’s success is paying employees well, providing benefits, and giving them an opportunity to unionize.

So large corporations’ excuses that treating & paying workers well would damage profits are all a crock of shit.

(Source: facebook.com, via stfuconservatives)

New App Lets You Boycott Koch Brothers, Monsanto And More By Scanning Your Shopping Cart

stfuconservatives:

I couldn’t scream SHUT UP AND TAKE MY MONEY fast enough at this. And it’s free! Due to all the traffic, the app is down right now - the developer says he’s getting more than 10 new users every second. Download it! Vote with your wallet!

BASICALLY ME WALKING INTO CHURCH

confessionsofahomo:

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angrybisexual:

sonofbaldwin:

Source.

(H/T Moses Seenarine)

Muslims (and also atheists) seem to be doing well in the violence is wrong department.

notyrqueer:

punkcub:

gaywrites:

Courtesy of The Stigma Project. 

Reblogging again because I’d like this to get some more exposure.

This infographic is helpful, but it seems to be from the perspective of old friends and a new diagnosis. I’d be interested to hear from folks who have been living with HIV for longer periods (5+years). I imagine both the common responses and the preferable responses might be different.

notyrqueer:

punkcub:

gaywrites:

Courtesy of The Stigma Project

Reblogging again because I’d like this to get some more exposure.

This infographic is helpful, but it seems to be from the perspective of old friends and a new diagnosis. I’d be interested to hear from folks who have been living with HIV for longer periods (5+years). I imagine both the common responses and the preferable responses might be different.

(via angrybisexual)

Examples of cumulative trauma include extended exposure to frightening or stressful situations, homophobia/heterosexism, racism, sexism, classism, poverty, and neglect.

Common negative beliefs associated with cumulative trauma:

“The world is unsafe.”
“I need to protect myself at all times.”
“Nothing will ever change.”
“There is no point in trying.”

is it so wrong for me to just want to feel loved?

i have been trying to balance this desire for a partner with my history of abuse

why does it feel there has to be a connection?

i desire the stability and unconditional love of a family. something i have never felt

i guess i am just desperately trying to create that unit bc love and stability are necessary for a healthy and happy life and that unit is what i feel that i need

i am beginning to embrace this need as something i should not fear

i have tried other strategies to achieve that happiness and stability which were not only unsuccessful but also personally destructive

As life gets longer, awful feels softer.
Well it feels pretty soft to me.
And if it takes shit to make bliss,
well I feel pretty blissfully.

We are fixed.
We are fixed.
We are fixed right where we stand.